Add Yahoo as a preferred source to see more of our stories on Google. QUESTION: Are there new etiquette rules regarding how to address the mail envelope of a widowed woman? Should it be like “Mrs.

QUESTION: Are there new etiquette rules regarding how to address the mail envelope of a widowed woman? Should it be like “Mrs. John Smith” or "Mrs. Sondra Smith” or "Ms. Sondra Smith?” CALLIE’S ANSWER ...